In my 15-1/2 years as a theater
critic, I've had a chance to interview several people and it has almost
always been fun, though I always go into the interviews with trepidation
hoping not to screw it up.

He
was on the phone when I got to his office, so he motioned me to sit down,
which I did, and while he talked, I looked at the books on his bookshelf.
I saw one by photographer Ruth Bernhard, famous for her "nudes in a box"
photos. I had met Bernhard at a party given by guys who lived across
the street from her. It wasn't until a long time after the party that
I discovered this fascinating old woman was actually famous. When John got
off the phone, I started talking about having met Bernhard and things just
went on from there.
It was from him that I learned that in most interviews if
you say something akin to "tell me all about yourself" they will and,
a question inserted here and there based on what you have heard, is all that
is necessary to keep the interview going.

I once interviewed a really neat kid who is a master of origami and has been
able to travel around the world on money paid to him to give demonstrations
in places like Japan. (I attended a class he was helping with and to this
day can't even make the crane that everybody starts with!)

But I'd never interviewed a dying man
before today. Playwright Rob Lautz is about to see the premiere of his
second play, The Third Date, written based on his experiences with
prostate cancer. He's terminal, he tells me, and though you would not
know it to look at him, he feels "rotten," he says with a smile on his face.
The good news, if there is any, is that prostate cancer is slow moving and
so while there is nothing more they can do to cure him, he's not likely to
die in the near future.
In spite of the subject matter it was
really a fun interview. He told me that I reviewed his first play,
back in 2012. He said I didn't give him a bad review, but I didn't
give him a good review either. I went back and looked it up and
I ended the review by saying “The Meaning of It All is a promising
start. I hope it’s not another five years before we see more from Lautz."
He said that encouragement was part of his decision to write this play.
We will see the one man play tomorrow, but he says it's funny and poignant
and raw and he pulls no punches describing his experiences going through
what he has been through. He points out that this is a cancer that is rarely
talked about and he hopes to raise awareness and remove the stigma from all
those macho men who don't want to admit that there is a problem "down
there."
It sounds like it's going to be quite an experience.
I hope this time I can give him a better review!
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